So I’m totally crushing on a female coworker. She’s funny, she has a great smile and she’s pretty much a match made in heaven for me.
Problem is, she’s about 11 years younger than I am, and I’m married with 3 kids.
So yeah, I know that I’ll never make any moves (or even let her know), but I still can’t help getting all fluttery inside whenever I’m around her, and I can’t help but think if I had met her at the same time I met my wife, that things might have turned out a lot different.
I love my wife and family, and I’d never do anything to hurt them. But these thoughts are there, and I can’t shake them. My biggest complaint is — I wish these thoughts would have never even entered my head, and I wish I could put them behind me and get on with life as normal.
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u can t do anythink bout it cozs u have kids!! So either try to aviod her or get on with ur ****ing life hello u gotta wife and kids and she 11YEARS YOUNGER THAN YOU .WHAT EVA U DO DO NOT FLIRT EVA.
emogirl666 on January 5th, 2008 at 10:54 pm | Link
My biggest complaint is the public school system because the bitch above me can’t spell.
Andrew on March 11th, 2008 at 6:14 am | Link
You are torturing yourself, but it’s not easy to just stop. If you really want to get on “with life as normal” then you will have to stop looking at this girl in “that” way. In fact, you may need to stop looking at her altogether. Avoidance is key. Otherwise, you will simply increase your feelings and get deeper into this nonsense. Good luck
Pabs on September 18th, 2008 at 8:03 pm | Link
I’m agreeing with Andrew on this one.
Rebecca on March 11th, 2009 at 3:00 pm | Link