http://mybiggestcomplaint.com/changing-your-last-name-when-you-get-married/1505/ Where the world comes to complain. Thu, 20 Nov 2008 14:53:47 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.2.1 http://mybiggestcomplaint.com/changing-your-last-name-when-you-get-married/1505/#comment-6665 kerry Tue, 23 Sep 2008 06:06:13 +0000 http://mybiggestcomplaint.com/changing-your-last-name-when-you-get-married/1505/#comment-6665 I feel that if a woman does not take a mans last name, then she is embarrassed about the relationship. I feel that if a woman does not take a mans last name, then she is embarrassed about the relationship.

]]> http://mybiggestcomplaint.com/changing-your-last-name-when-you-get-married/1505/#comment-6273 Shawnee Sat, 23 Aug 2008 23:46:29 +0000 http://mybiggestcomplaint.com/changing-your-last-name-when-you-get-married/1505/#comment-6273 Honestly, I dont agree at all with this posting. Because the fact is, its best to be sure...BEFORE you get married. The reason why there are so many divorces is because a lot of people in this day and time get married for the wrong reasons and are NOT 100% sure in their heart that is what they should do. I have talked to plenty of people like this. Its not the NAME change that makes the difference...I certainly am not gonna change my name or not change my name due to it being a "hassle" to everybody else to keep up with it. Its the marriage itself that makes the difference. Instead of giving the advice "why don't you wait 5 or 10 years to make sure its right," why dont you advise people to be wiser in picking their mate and staying in longer lasting marriages. The name change is a minor part of the deal. I don't think it's wise to go into a marriage with the attitude of "Let me make sure our marriage is going to work first" because that's an indication that your still not sure. And if you are not sure, you shouldn't get married. Period. You say getting a name change is stupid? No, getting married to someone with a skeptical mindset would be stupid. Its like dooming the marriage before it even begins. Honestly, I dont agree at all with this posting. Because the fact is, its best to be sure…BEFORE you get married. The reason why there are so many divorces is because a lot of people in this day and time get married for the wrong reasons and are NOT 100% sure in their heart that is what they should do. I have talked to plenty of people like this. Its not the NAME change that makes the difference…I certainly am not gonna change my name or not change my name due to it being a “hassle” to everybody else to keep up with it. Its the marriage itself that makes the difference. Instead of giving the advice “why don’t you wait 5 or 10 years to make sure its right,” why dont you advise people to be wiser in picking their mate and staying in longer lasting marriages. The name change is a minor part of the deal. I don’t think it’s wise to go into a marriage with the attitude of “Let me make sure our marriage is going to work first” because that’s an indication that your still not sure. And if you are not sure, you shouldn’t get married. Period. You say getting a name change is stupid? No, getting married to someone with a skeptical mindset would be stupid. Its like dooming the marriage before it even begins.

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